The Process

 Jerrod got hired in the beginning of June and we arrived on island the beginning of August. It was an extremely long summer of paperwork and uncertainty. We anxiously awaited results from every clearance screening, medical screening, and more. We told people about our future on a need-to-know basis as we were afraid at any moment plans could fall through.

Eventually it was time to let my work family know, so that there was time to hire a replacement. I LOVED my job, and honestly believed I would stay there my entire teaching career. I had an amazing boss who was also my friend. So, naturally, I made Jerrod be the one to break the news to her. A few days later, I informed the rest of my team through tears over a video call. It was one of the most difficult conversations I have ever had to have.

We also waited awhile before telling the kids. Trying to find the best timing was hard. We knew if we told them too early, we would be questioned all summer about a timeline we were unsure of ourselves, but if we told them too late, they wouldn’t have time to process. (Although I think they’re still processing now that we’ve arrived!)

After weeks of anticipation, the time came for the last step, and on Sunday July 28, Jerrod left for training in South Carolina. I spent those five days as a single parent trying to get the house for the move while still being there for the kids. Thankfully, my mom was eager to spend as much time with them as possible, so she took them often. He came home late that Thursday night and we began the final preparations for this incredible journey.


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  1. Suzie and DjAugust 17, 2024 at 3:47 PM

    And what a journey it has been and oh so much more to come!!

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